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Almost kissed by a man….

Almost kissed by a man….

(Well, the Google search for women kissing women seems to have done really well … and I come up second in Yahoo for boy kissing boy, so who knows…)

So, late night, H and I go to one of H’s perennial favourites, a local gay bar. One of H’s friends comes up to us, along with one of her friends, some guy who’s birthday it patently was. And he kisses Heledd, and makes a lunge for my mouth. Normally I’d have enough time to at least normally dodge, or we’d have talked or made an introduction — as if men keep trying to kiss me all the time, which they patently don’t.

None of that, straight into the kissing. So I had to literally push him away because there just wasn’t time – thus acting like a scared heterosexual dude or something. Which is annoying, because I’m comfy enough not to be scared. I just didn’t feel like getting kissed then. Is that so wrong?

4 Comments

  • Adolf

    Oh come on – "comfy enough not to be scared"? Of course you aren't! If it was a woman kissing you, you'd most likely not have objected (unless you really do have an aversion to being kissed by strangers, in which case you're obviously not comfy enough at all). A typical scared heterosexual 'dude' is exactly what you sound like.

  • YES ITS IS SO WRONG GET A GRIP WITH ON YOUR SEXUALITY AND DON:T MAKE RIDICULOUS EXCUSES LIKE I JUST DIDN:T FEEL LIKE GETTING KISSED>>>WHEN BLATANTLY GET A LIFE!

  • lushy

    Argh, that is SO wrong! "I didn't feel like getting kissed then?!" That is well lame, blatantely homophobic vibes going on there even if you can't see it. It just means that you wanted to be seen as the oh so hetro, macho asian man; at the risk of sounding like total fag haggage men that aren't straight are the only decent ones

  • hetero or homo or bi…if you didn't feel like

    some dude kissing you…then that's your right.

    i don't think it has anything to do with gender
    as some of the others call it uncool.

    cool is what your gut tells you.it almost sounds like you have to treat homosexuals different and let him touch you…even if you don't want it.
    that's just human. nothing to do with boy girl…gilr girl boy boy…i remember this guy i found hot…started touching my boobies…boldly
    and you know what…he turned me completly off cuz there was no consideration of my feelings.

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